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Don’t feel like you have to be a master manipulator or that you have to play a game and not be yourself to be effective with women. Most women shun the pickup artist type and are attracted more so to the shy guy. They feel bad that the attractive shy guy doesn’t approach them. The lost opportunity to connect and approach a woman is doomsday for the shy guy. Approach is a skill that needs to be learned. It’s an essential skill. Many dating gurus and CD’s are designed to glorify the player. It’s hype to become a self-gratifying snagger, a bed-hopping player, loose morals type of guy. But is that what you’re really after? After all, you’re looking for #1 life mate, aren’t you? You don’t want to play games. But if you are unable to motivate yourself to the skill levels of becoming a prime contender you must content yourself to mediocrity. Most guys don’t get the confidence and skill level they need to approach the fascinating women they are most attracted to. With good instruction and placing oneself into social situations they learn what it takes to smooth out the rough edges and interaction confidence is born. If you are hoping for something turn around without putting in the effort, you are in a sense exploiting someone mentally hoping that they will give in and experience attraction for you. That type of wishful thinking is daydreaming. If one thinks that they can make a #9 or #10 woman in the attraction scale chase after them without the proper groundwork, that’s irrational thinking. Many techniques and communications can be learned that will transform a friendship into a blossoming relationship. A guy who is thought of as a sweet nice mediocre guy needs to learn how to turn on and off the buttons that allow for swimming in the ocean of possibilities. Really hot looking girls get flirted with constantly. Most girls of substance don’t get their share of quality guys because they intimidate by their looks and carriage. Shy guys don’t get a chance to interact because they don’t know how to. When a guy is literate and learns basic attraction skills and become a student of the game, the really hot quality and substance girls are available. He has choices. What is it with most guys that they settle for less? They don’t get to choose and hooked on bottom fishing. Catfish are OK but catching flashy marlin is more fun. A lot of guys never learned all there is about fishing and spin their rods using the wrong bait, don’t fish the thermo clines and need emergency help. There are enormous possibilities in the sweet pursuit. There are many ways to communicate and project your thoughts to women that will captivate their interest. The skills and clear basics that need to be applied to be effective is a skill that can be learned by anyone. Planting seeds, speaking effectively and winning the heart of the quality girl who is a #10 in your book is what you’re really after isn’t it?