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After a breakup with the girl of your dreams, the idea of getting her back can seem hopeless. It isn’t necessary to turn back the clock because getting her back is very feasible. Countless couples have broken up and reunited. So forget the pessimism, start using your brain, and take action.1.) Our culture expects men to be confident and strong. They are supposed get out into the world and make things happen. Women expect and are attracted by this. There has been a good deal of debate over sensitivity in men. Sensitivity can make a man more appealing but only if he already possesses strength and self-assurance. Needy, clingy behavior, and crying will make you seem weak. This is an expression of panic and despair not of sensitivity. It will diminish your worth to her as a man. 2.) Try to resist the urge to patch things up as fast as possible after a breakup. It doesn’t have to be fixed up over night. In fact, it is best to allow a cooling off period of about a month. It is also good if the breakup happened in a mature and non threatening way. Both of you need the time to get rational and to get things into perspective. You have to understand why the breakup occurred before any lines of communication can be opened up. 3.) Do not expect or demand that your ex admit to any wrong doing. Remember, she didn’t approach you about getting back together, you are tying to convince her. Demands will push her away. Occasionally she will take her share of the blame but that is completely up to her. What is important here is that you should own up to your wrong doing without asking her to reciprocate. 4.) Begin a self improvement program. This means improvement on the inside and the outside. Lose that excess weight, improve your wardrobe, and do whatever else is required to make yourself more appealing. Think over the personal shortcomings that caused the breakup and resolve what to do about them. What you do right after a breakup with your girl can decide how to difficult getting back with her will be. Time it incorrectly or bring up the wrong subject with her and you’ll have made it very hard if not impossible to get her back. Use your head and make an effort to plan out what you will do.